Mary Millar (July 26, 1936 – November 10, 1998)
Beloved British Actress and Star of Stage and Screen
Mary Millar, the much-loved British actress renowned for her elegance, comedic timing, and warm screen presence, passed away on November 10, 1998, in Brockley, London, at the age of 62 after a battle with ovarian cancer. Best known to millions as the glamorous yet naïve Rose from the hit BBC sitcom Keeping Up Appearances, Millar’s career spanned more than four decades across theatre, television, and music.
Born Irene Mary Wetton in Doncaster, South Yorkshire, she grew up in a family with a strong connection to the arts—her father was a music hall performer, and her mother a talented pianist. From an early age, she showed a gift for singing and acting, eventually training at the Guildhall School of Music and Drama.
Her professional career began in the 1950s, performing in variety shows and pantomime before moving into theatre. In the 1960s, she rose to prominence on the West End stage, with standout roles in musicals such as Lock Up Your Daughters and Ann Veronica.
Mary Millar’s television debut came in the 1960s with appearances in popular series such as Dixon of Dock Green, Z-Cars, and The Benny Hill Show. Her versatility allowed her to move effortlessly between light comedy, drama, and musical performances.
In 1979, she made a notable mark in the West End by taking over the role of Mrs. Potts in Beauty and the Beast, but her most iconic television moment was yet to come.
In 1991, Millar joined the cast of the beloved sitcom Keeping Up Appearances, taking over the role of Rose, Hyacinth Bucket’s flirtatious younger sister. Her portrayal of Rose—sweet, romantic, and often hopelessly entangled in humorous escapades—was warmly received by audiences and critics alike. She remained with the show until 1995, helping cement its place as one of Britain’s most cherished comedies.
Following Keeping Up Appearances, Millar returned to the theatre, appearing in musical tours and pantomimes, and continued to make guest appearances on television. Her final major stage role was as Mrs. Potts in the London production of Beauty and the Beast, a part she performed until ill health forced her to step away in 1998.
Mary Millar married Rafael in 1962, and the couple had one daughter, Lucy. Off-screen, she was known for her gentle nature, quick wit, and generosity towards colleagues and fans alike.
Her passing was deeply felt by the entertainment industry and her devoted fan base. She is remembered not only for her comedic brilliance but also for her grace as a performer and her ability to bring warmth and humanity to every role she played.
Mary Millar was laid to rest at St. Margaret’s Churchyard in Tylers Green, Buckinghamshire, England, in a quiet ceremony attended by family, close friends, and colleagues from the stage and screen.